The Party Idea Playbook

Party ideas for adults

Adult parties can be as relaxed or as ambitious as you like. Host a tasting night (wine and cheese, gin, whisky or craft beer), a themed dinner such as a murder mystery or a gothic banquet, a cocktail or casino night, or something active like a golf day or go-karting.

For a bigger celebration, try a boat party, a glamping weekend or a hot tub in the garden. Every plan includes a menu, timings and the bookings to make.

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Anti-Valentine's party

A tongue-in-cheek party for singles with black balloons, break-up songs karaoke, a piñata and comfort food.

Valentine's DayAdults 18+BudgetEasyIndoor

Big game watch party

A big-screen watch party for the championship game with wings, nachos, a squares pool and halftime games.

Game dayAdults All agesMidMediumIndoor

Black tie dinner party

A formal five-course dinner at home with place cards, matched wines, candlelight and a midnight toast.

New Year's EveAnniversaryBirthdayAdults 18+SplurgeAmbitiousIndoor

Board game night

A games café at home with a menu of board games for every group size, snacks and a tournament leaderboard.

BirthdayNew Year's EveHousewarmingAdults 12+BudgetEasyIndoor

Boat party

Charter a river cruiser or canal boat for a sail with drinks, a buffet and a sunset playlist.

BirthdayWeddingOffice partyAdults 18+SplurgeMediumOutdoor

Bon voyage retirement party

A travel-themed send-off with boarding pass invitations, a world map of suggestions and dishes from around the globe.

RetirementAdults All agesMidMediumIndoor

Bridal shower garden brunch

A floral brunch with a mimosa bar, a flower crown station and games that test how well guests know the couple.

WeddingAdults 18+MidMediumOutdoor

Candle making party

Pour scented soy candles in jars, choose fragrances and colours, and take home a candle and a wax melt.

BirthdayChristmasWeddingAdults 12+MidMediumIndoor

Casino and game night

Play-money blackjack, poker and roulette tables, a dress code and prizes for the biggest winner.

BirthdayNew Year's EveOffice partyAdults 18+MidEasyIndoor

Christmas cocktail party

A glamorous festive drinks party with three signature cocktails, canapés, a mistletoe photo spot and a cracker toast.

ChristmasOffice partyAdults 18+MidMediumIndoor

Christmas wreath making

Build a fresh foliage wreath on a moss ring with pine, eucalyptus, dried oranges and ribbon, with mulled wine.

ChristmasAdults 12+MidMediumIndoor

Comedy night at home

Book a comedian or two for a living-room comedy club, with cabaret seating, a bar and an open-mic spot.

BirthdayOffice partyRetirementAdults 18+MidMediumIndoor

Couples' cooking night

Couples cook a three-course meal side by side with recipe cards, a cook-off dessert and wine to match.

Valentine's DayAnniversaryAdults 18+MidMediumIndoor

Craft beer and BBQ

A low-and-slow barbecue with a craft beer tasting flight, beer-paired dishes and garden games.

BirthdaySummerGame dayAdults 18+MidMediumOutdoor

Festive afternoon tea

Tiered stands of turkey and cranberry sandwiches, mince pie scones and mini yule logs with tea and fizz.

ChristmasRetirementAdults All agesMidMediumIndoor

Fondue night

A cosy evening of cheese fondue followed by chocolate fondue, with games until midnight.

New Year's EveValentine's DayAdults 16+MidEasyIndoor

Friendsgiving potluck

A shared autumn feast with friends: the host roasts the turkey, everyone brings a dish, and there's a gratitude tablecloth.

ThanksgivingAdults 18+BudgetMediumIndoor

Galentine's brunch

A brunch for best friends with a waffle bar, a flower bouquet station, compliments jar and pink fizz.

Valentine's DayAdults 18+BudgetEasyIndoor

Gin tasting party

Taste four craft gins neat and with matched tonics and garnishes, then build a signature G&T.

BirthdayWeddingAdults 18+MidEasyIndoor

Glamping weekend

A weekend in bell tents or pods with a campfire feast, a hot tub and woodland walks.

BirthdayWeddingAdults 18+SplurgeAmbitiousOutdoor

Golf day

Book tee times for a friendly scramble, add nearest-the-pin and longest-drive prizes, then dinner at the clubhouse.

BirthdayRetirementOffice partyWeddingAdults 18+SplurgeMediumOutdoor

Grand prix race day party

Watch a motor race on the big screen with a chequered-flag theme, a race sweepstake and a sim-racing challenge.

Game dayBirthdayAdults All agesMidEasyIndoor

Halloween costume cocktail party

A grown-up Halloween night with spooky cocktails, a dark buffet, a costume contest and a horror quiz.

HalloweenAdults 18+MidMediumIndoor

Hen party cocktail class

A hands-on cocktail-making session at home, with a bartender or a step-by-step guide, games and a glam photo booth.

WeddingBirthdayAdults 18+MidMediumIndoor

Hot tub party

A hired hot tub in the garden with fairy lights, floating drinks holders, a playlist and a robe for every guest.

BirthdaySummerNew Year's EveAdults 18+SplurgeEasyOutdoor

Masquerade ball

An elegant evening of masks, candlelight, a waltz lesson and the big unmasking at midnight.

New Year's EveHalloweenAdults 18+SplurgeAmbitiousIndoor

Mum-to-be pamper party

A relaxing baby shower with a mobile therapist for hand and foot massages, a face mask bar and a nourishing lunch.

Baby showerAdults 18+MidEasyIndoor

Murder mystery dinner

Guests play characters at a dinner party and work out whodunnit across three courses.

BirthdayHalloweenOffice partyAdults 16+MidAmbitiousIndoor

New Year's Day brunch

A relaxed late brunch to start the year: pancake stack, full breakfast, Bloody Mary bar and resolutions jar.

New Year's EveAdults All agesBudgetEasyIndoor

Office Christmas party

A festive work party with a venue, a two-course dinner, awards, a secret Santa and a DJ.

Office partyChristmasAdults 18+SplurgeAmbitiousIndoor

Office summer social

A team summer party in a park or garden venue with a barbecue, sports day games and an ice cream van.

Office partySummerAdults 18+MidMediumOutdoor

Paint and sip evening

Everyone follows the same step-by-step painting with a drink in hand, and goes home with a canvas.

BirthdayWeddingValentine's DayAdults 18+MidMediumIndoor

Plant swap party

Guests bring cuttings and plants to swap, pot up new finds at a repotting bar and learn propagation tips.

HousewarmingBirthdayAdults All agesBudgetEasyEither

Poker and steak night

A stag or birthday night with a steak dinner, a Texas Hold'em tournament with chips, and whisky.

WeddingBirthdayAdults 18+MidEasyIndoor

Pottery workshop party

Hand-build mugs and trinket dishes with air-dry clay or book a pottery studio throwing session.

BirthdayWeddingAdults 10+MidMediumIndoor

Pub quiz night

Host a proper pub quiz at home with teams, picture and music rounds, a jackpot question and prizes.

BirthdayOffice partyNew Year's EveAdults 12+BudgetMediumIndoor

Retirement party

Celebrate a career with a 'this is your life' slideshow, speeches, a memory book and a bucket-list jar.

RetirementOffice partyAdults All agesMidMediumEither

Roaring twenties party

Flapper dresses, pinstripe suits, jazz, a champagne tower and a speakeasy password at the door.

New Year's EveBirthdayAdults 18+SplurgeAmbitiousIndoor

Stag adventure day

An active day out with axe throwing or paintball, a barbecue and a pub quiz about the groom.

WeddingBirthdayAdults 18+SplurgeMediumOutdoor

Storybook baby shower

Each guest brings a favourite children's book with a message inside, building the baby's first library.

Baby showerAdults All agesBudgetEasyIndoor

Surprise anniversary dinner

Friends and family secretly gather at a restaurant or home for a surprise dinner with messages from far-away loved ones.

AnniversaryAdults All agesMidMediumIndoor

Sushi making party

A hands-on sushi class at home: roll maki, shape nigiri and finish with mochi and green tea.

BirthdayValentine's DayAdults 12+MidMediumIndoor

Tennis and strawberries party

A summer tennis-themed garden party with the big final on screen, strawberries and cream and a mini tennis tournament.

Game daySummerAdults All agesMidEasyOutdoor

Through the decades party

A milestone birthday where each guest dresses as a decade, with a music quiz and a photo wall.

BirthdayAnniversaryAdults 30+MidMediumIndoor

Twinkle twinkle little star baby shower

A dreamy star and moon theme with a gold balloon garland, wish stars for baby and a starry dessert table.

Baby showerAdults All agesMidMediumIndoor

Ugly Christmas jumper party

Everyone wears their tackiest festive jumper for games, a jumper catwalk and a cosy Christmas buffet.

ChristmasAdults 18+BudgetEasyIndoor

Vampire gothic dinner party

A candlelit gothic banquet with black roses, blood-red cocktails, a dark menu and velvet everything.

HalloweenBirthdayAdults 18+MidMediumIndoor

Whisky tasting night

Taste five whiskies from different regions with tasting notes, water droppers and food pairings.

BirthdayRetirementOffice partyAdults 18+MidEasyIndoor

White elephant gift swap

Everyone brings one wrapped gift; players unwrap or steal in turns for the funniest swap of the season.

ChristmasAdults 16+BudgetEasyIndoor

Wine and cheese tasting

A guided tasting of four wines with matched cheeses, score cards and a blind-taste guessing game.

BirthdayWeddingAnniversaryAdults 18+MidEasyIndoor

Yoga and brunch party

A private yoga class in the garden or a studio, followed by a healthy brunch spread and smoothie bar.

BirthdayWeddingAdults 16+MidEasyEither

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