Surprise anniversary dinner
Friends and family secretly gather at a restaurant or home for a surprise dinner with messages from far-away loved ones.
- Guests
- 10-30 guests
- Party length
- 3-4 hours
- Prep time
- 2-3 weeks of secret planning
- Ages
- All ages
What it could look like
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What it is
A surprise party for a couple’s anniversary. One partner (or the children) plans it in secret, friends gather at a restaurant or home, and the couple walk in to a room full of people who love them.
Plan ahead
- Four weeks before: choose a venue with a private room. Invite guests by a private group message - stress the secret!
- Two weeks before: collect video messages from far-away friends and family and edit them together.
- One week before: arrange a reason to get the couple there (“a quiet dinner for two”).
On the night
- Guests arrive 30 minutes early.
- A lookout texts when the couple are close.
- Lights down, then “SURPRISE!” when they walk in.
Ideas
- A photo book of their years together signed by guests
- A table plan with tables named after places they’ve been
- Video messages played on a screen
Food and drink
- Restaurant set menu or a catered dinner at home
- Champagne toast
- A cake with a photo of the couple
Tips
- Make sure the couple will be dressed for it - suggest a “nice dinner”.
- Consider whether they would actually enjoy a surprise.
On the day
- Guests arrive 30 minutes early and hide.
- The couple arrive for 'a quiet dinner' - SURPRISE!
- Drinks and greetings (30 min).
- Dinner (90 min).
- Video messages (15 min) from people who couldn't come.
- Toasts and cake (20 min).
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