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Friendsgiving potluck

ThanksgivingAdults 18+Budget costMedium effortIndoorAny gender

A shared autumn feast with friends: the host roasts the turkey, everyone brings a dish, and there's a gratitude tablecloth.

Guests
6-20 guests
Party length
4-5 hours
Prep time
1 day (turkey) plus a sign-up sheet
Ages
18+

What it is

A Thanksgiving dinner with friends where everyone brings a dish. The host provides the main (often a turkey), the space and drinks, and a shared sign-up list makes sure there’s a balance of sides and desserts.

Plan ahead

  • Three weeks before: send invites and a sign-up sheet: sides, salads, bread, desserts, drinks.
  • Three days before: start defrosting a frozen turkey in the fridge (about 1 day per 2kg).
  • The day before: set the table and make the gravy base.

The turkey

Roast at 180°C for about 35-40 minutes per kg (unstuffed), basting now and then. It’s done when a thermometer in the thickest part of the thigh reads 74°C. Rest for 30-45 minutes before carving.

Sign-up ideas

  • Mashed potatoes, stuffing, green bean casserole, roasted squash, mac and cheese
  • Cranberry sauce, gravy, bread rolls
  • Pumpkin pie, apple pie, pecan pie

Set the scene

Kraft paper runner with pens for gratitude notes, small pumpkins, autumn leaves and candles.

Tips

  • Ask people to bring dishes ready to serve (oven space is precious).
  • Have takeaway boxes for leftovers.

On the day

  1. Arrival (30 min): cider and appetisers.
  2. Gratitude tablecloth (ongoing): guests write what they're thankful for on a kraft paper runner.
  3. Dinner (90 min): the host's turkey and everyone's dishes.
  4. Games (40 min): pie break and a parlour game.
  5. Pie and coffee (30 min).

Shopping list

roasting tin with rack
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meat thermometer
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kraft paper table runner
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autumn table decorations
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pie dishes
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carving knife set
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