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Black tie dinner party

New Year's EveAnniversaryBirthdayAdults 18+Splurge costAmbitious effortIndoorAny gender

A formal five-course dinner at home with place cards, matched wines, candlelight and a midnight toast.

Guests
6-12 guests
Party length
5 hours
Prep time
1-2 days
Ages
18+

What it is

A proper formal dinner: black tie, a beautifully laid table, several courses with wines to match and a midnight toast. Ideal for New Year’s Eve or a significant anniversary. Hiring a private chef lets the host enjoy it too.

Plan ahead

  • Four weeks before: send formal invitations with the dress code. Consider booking a private chef.
  • One week before: finalise the menu and wine pairings. Buy candles, flowers and place cards.
  • The day before: set the table, polish glasses, prep anything that can be done ahead.

Set the table

White linen, a low centrepiece of flowers and candles, cutlery laid outside-in by course, glasses for champagne, white, red and water, and handwritten place cards. Seat couples apart to mix conversation.

Sample menu

  1. Canapés: smoked salmon blinis, gougères
  2. Starter: seared scallops with pea purée (or burrata with figs)
  3. Palate cleanser: lemon sorbet
  4. Main: beef fillet with dauphinoise and red wine jus (or wild mushroom risotto)
  5. Dessert: chocolate fondant with crème fraîche
  6. Cheese (optional) with port

Tips

  • Choose dishes that can be finished in under 10 minutes each.
  • Keep music low and classic: jazz or piano.

On the day

  1. 8:00pm Champagne reception and canapés.
  2. 8:45pm Starter.
  3. 9:30pm Fish course or sorbet palate cleanser.
  4. 10:15pm Main course.
  5. 11:15pm Dessert and dessert wine.
  6. 11:55pm Countdown and a champagne toast at midnight.

Shopping list

dinner party place card holders
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crystal wine glasses
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linen tablecloth
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