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Vow renewal garden party

AnniversaryWeddingAll agesSplurge costAmbitious effortOutdoorAny gender

A short, heartfelt vow renewal under a flower arch, then a relaxed garden party with afternoon tea or a barbecue.

Guests
20-60 guests
Party length
4-5 hours
Prep time
Several weeks
Ages
All ages

What it is

A renewal of wedding vows for a milestone anniversary. Less formal than a wedding, it’s often in a garden with a celebrant, close family and friends, and the couple’s children or grandchildren involved.

Plan ahead

  • Three months before: book a celebrant (vow renewals aren’t legal ceremonies, so anyone can lead it).
  • Six weeks before: send invitations, plan the meal and hire chairs and an arch.
  • Two weeks before: write new vows and choose readings.

The ceremony

  • Welcome from the celebrant
  • A reading by a child or grandchild
  • The couple’s new vows to each other
  • Exchange of new rings, or a blessing of the old ones
  • A kiss, cheers and confetti

Set the scene

A flower arch, chairs in rows with an aisle, bunting, and a table with their original wedding photo.

Food and drink

  • Afternoon tea or a barbecue
  • Champagne toast
  • A cake that echoes the original wedding cake

Tips

  • Keep the ceremony short and personal.
  • Biodegradable petal confetti only.

On the day

  1. Arrival (20 min): guests take seats facing the arch.
  2. Ceremony (20 min): a celebrant, readings, new vows and ring exchange or blessing.
  3. Drinks and photos (40 min).
  4. Meal (60 min): afternoon tea, barbecue or a buffet.
  5. Cake and toast (20 min).
  6. Music and dancing (60 min).

Shopping list

wedding flower arch
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anniversary rings
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vow renewal decorations
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garden chairs hire
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wedding bunting
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celebration cake stand
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