First birthday party

What it is

A first birthday is more for the grown-ups, but the star is the baby. Keep it short and around nap time, with a smash cake for the classic photos, a play corner for babies and good food for adults.

Plan ahead

• Three weeks before: pick a time that fits the baby’s routine (often after a morning nap).
• Two weeks before: print a photo from each month of the first year for a “12 months” banner.
• The day before: bake or order a small smash cake (6 inches is plenty) and a main cake.

Set the scene

A “ONE” balloon, the monthly photo banner, a decorated high chair and a soft play mat area. Keep decorations out of baby’s reach.

Activities

Time capsule

Guests write a message to be opened on the child’s 18th birthday. Add the day’s newspaper and a photo.

Smash cake

Strip the baby to a nappy or a cake-smash outfit, put them on a wipe-clean mat, and let them dig in. Have a warm bath ready afterwards.

Sensory play

Soft blocks, a small ball pit, crinkle books and musical toys for the babies and toddlers.

Food and drink

• Grazing platters, sandwiches and dips for adults
• Soft finger foods for little ones: banana, steamed veg, rice cakes
• Tea, coffee and fizz

Tips

• Use a simple sponge with a light cream frosting for the smash cake; avoid nuts, honey and very sugary icing for babies.
• Keep it to two hours - a tired one-year-old is not a party guest.